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Nonviolence: 25 Lessons from the History of a Dangerous Idea

October 21, 2010 by [email protected] 5 Comments


This post just summarizes the 25 Lessons that are discussed in detail in Mark Kurlansky’s book Nonviolence: 25 Lessons from the History of a Dangerous Idea … these are not my own ideas, but the reading certainly stimulated me to think deeply about the concept of dealing with conflicts nonviolently, and gave me a enlightening new perspective on human history, especially within the scope of war, peace, religion, and politics.

Below are the 25 Lessons … I encourage you to pick up the book if you are at all stimulated by these concepts. Also, I welcome all comments, especially debate and controversy!

The lessons:

  1. There is no proactive word for nonviolence.
  2. Nations that build military forces as deterrents, will eventually use them.
  3. Practitioners of nonviolence are seen as enemies of the state.
  4. Once a state takes over a religion, the religion loses its nonviolent teachings.
  5. A rebel can be defamed and co-opted, by making him a saint after he is dead (e.g. Gandhi)
  6. Somewhere behind every war, there are always a few founding lies.
  7. A propaganda machine promoting hatred always has a war awaiting in the wings.
  8. People who go to war start to resemble their enemy.
  9. A conflict between a violent and a nonviolent force is a moral argument. If the violent side can provoke the nonviolent side into violence, the violent side has won.
  10. The problem lies not in the nature of man, but in the nature of power.
  11. The longer a war lasts, the less popular it becomes.
  12. The state imagines it is impotent without a military because it cannot conceive of power without force.
  13. It is often not the largest, but the best organized and most articulate group that wins.
  14. All debate momentarily ends with an enforced silence once the first shots are fired.
  15. A shooting war is not necessary to overthrow an established power, but is used to consolidate the revolution itself.
  16. Violence does not resolve, it always leads to more violence.
  17. Warfare produces peace activists. A group of veterans is a likely place to find peace activists.
  18. People motivated by fear do not act well.
  19. While it is perfectly feasible to convince a people faced with brutal repression to raise up in a suicidal attack on their oppressor, it is almost impossible to convince them to meet deadly violence with nonviolent resistance.
  20. Wars do not have to be sold to the general public if they can be carried out by an all-voluteer professional military.
  21. Once you start the business of killing, you just get deeper and deeper without limits.
  22. Violence always comes with a supposedly rational explanation, which is only dismissed as irrational if the violence fails.
  23. Violence is a virus that infects and takes over.
  24. The miracle is, that despite all of society’s promotion of warfare, most soldiers find warfare to be a wrenching departure from their own moral values.
  25. The hard work of beginning a movement to end war has already been done.

Again… I look forward to comments, either supporting or refuting these points, and I that some of are inspired to pick up the book, as it might be like nothing you’ve ever read before.

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Filed Under: Activism, Personal Development Tagged With: 25 lessons, 25 lessons from the history of a dangerous idea, capitalism, communism, conflict resolution, kurlansky, nonviolence, peace, violence, war

Take Care of your Inner Circle (One of the Greatest Investments you can Make in Life)

September 19, 2010 by [email protected] 1 Comment

Some people live incredibly fulfilling and happy lives… wealthy lives, not just financially, but in all aspects. Others, despite often working hard and long hours, studying a lot, and networking like crazy, do not reach the same level of fulfillment, even if they do reach success in their career or financial statuses.

So what’s the secret to happy and fulfilling life – wealthy in all aspects?

I don’t know the whole formula… but I can give you an important piece:

Take Care Of Your Inner Circle.

Take care of your family. Your close friends. Your loved ones.

Take care of those who take care of you, and those who you take care of will take care of you.

Not only will you personally feel more happy and fulfilled, you will actually build an unbreakable web of support around you that will be there to help propel you to success and will be there to when you are facing failure or defeat (and if you try to achieve something significant, you will find yourself facing failure and defeat at some point).

If you don’t take care of your inner circle… you will inevitably struggle to find happiness, fulfillment, and success… even if you work hard, even if you network a lot and make many connections, even if you study hard and gain specialized knowledge.

I wish I could elaborate on this topic… but it’s pretty straightforward. Take care of your inner circle.

Care, and show them you care.

Filed Under: Personal Development, Relationships

Why Are Honesty and Integrity So Important?

September 11, 2010 by [email protected] 1 Comment

Reposted from FreedomPassionPurpose.com ….

Without relationships, the human experience of life as we know it cannot exist. (That in itself is a blog post for another day).

Relationships are of course complicated and have many elements – but there is one element that glues it all together. That fundamental element is trust.

How do you build trust in your relationships – including your relationship with yourself?

Live your life with these two values: Honesty and Integrity.

Honesty: Be true to others in all that you do.

Integrity: Be true to yourself in all that you do.

Of course you can have varied definitions to these terms, but let’s work with these basic definitions for now.

Why are these values so damn important?

Firstly, the greatest success in life is being happy with yourself. If integrity is absent from your life, you cannot be happy with yourself. Sure, you can still pursue pleasure … but you will be blocking yourself from any real significant fulfillment. If honesty is absent, you will have to lie to yourself to be able to come “comfortably” to terms with your own actions. And the minute you lie to yourself, you violate your integrity … and in the process block yourself from true happiness and fulfillment.

If you cannot be honest with people, you cannot developing long-term meaningful relationships with them, because there is no trust.

If you are not honest with yourself … if you violate your own values, you will have difficulty trusting yourself. You will eventually become overwhelmed with doubt, and with good reason.

In an earlier post, I spoke about authenticity. Authenticity in your business is impossible without honesty and integrity in your life. Especially if you are building a business or a brand online, your moral values and the way you live your life will tie directly into the outcomes in your business.

If you think that taking a shortcut, and sacrificing your integrity, will somehow get you more money and success or more fun and pleasure, think again. You’re probably thinking short term. In the long term, violating trust with others or with yourself is the surest way to failure. Also remember to never confuse pleasure with happiness … they are very different terms and values (again, another post for another day – but the basic idea is that pleasure is a shorter term feeling while happiness is a long-term element of the human experience).

Of course, your values and the meanings you attach to honesty and integrity can be different from mine – but regardless of how you define these values, I strongly urge you to take a serious look at how you apply these values in your life, your business, and your relationships. Short-term results may be deceiving – think about the life you want to create … the person you want to become.

Please comment with your own experiences, negative or positive, regarding honesty and integrity in your life and relationships.

Filed Under: Featured, Freedom Passion and Purpose, Personal Development

How Great Leaders Inspire Action (An Opposite Belief System)

September 4, 2010 by [email protected] Leave a Comment

This video is so extremely powerful that I almost want to keep it for myself … but since a great friend shared it with me, I want to share it with you. Watch the whole thing and take notes!


WHY are you doing what you do? What drives you? What’s your purpose?

Until you determine your inner WHY… your CORE VALUES… forget the how, and especially the what. Find your inspiration first … then work towards creating a plan around it and executing that plan.

Filed Under: Featured, Freedom Passion and Purpose, Leadership, Personal Development Tagged With: apple, belief system, Leadership, psychology, simon sinek, steve jobs, thought patterns, wright brothers

Take An Immigrant’s Perspective (A Challenge To Native Born Americans)

August 25, 2010 by [email protected] 4 Comments

I realize that some people might find this post somewhat controversial – but bear with me. I am posing a challenge to all native born American citizens – especially those in lower middle class families and upward on the economic scale. If you want to achieve more, to get what you want and want what you have, try taking an immigrant’s perspective to life.

If nothing else, it will help you gain a much deeper appreciation for your current circumstances – and at best it may give you a drive to succeed like never before, and the fuel to overcome your perceived obstacles.

Imagine this… you come from a country where you are not allowed to start your own business because free enterprise is not allowed. You have to wait two hours in line just to buy bread – or worse, you can’t buy bread.

Imagine you are a woman in country where the religious laws prevent you from choosing where to go, what to wear, how to live your life … that you are essentially the property of a man.

Imagine living in a land where no matter how smart and educated you, how hard you work, and how much potential you have … there is just simply NO opportunity for you to get ahead.

There is no “what’s for dinner tonight?” .. you are happy if there is a nutritious dinner. There is certainly no “what’s on TV?” Your family has no car, much less a car for each family member.

Imagine that the government and law enforcement does nothing to serve and protect you, but does everything to exploit you. Even the information you are allowed to see is blatantly censored to prevent you from seeing the world and thinking independently.

And imagine you come to a land where you can read, hear, and say what you want freely, with no threat of prosecution. A land where you can work in whatever occupation you want or start your own business. A land that holds freedom and equality as some of its greatest values. An economy and society where you can design whatever kind of life you want … where your greatest limitations to success and prosperity will always be within you, not outside of you.

Did you know that an immigrant is 4 times more likely to become a millionaire than an American born citizen?

I honestly attribute most of my natural ambition to the fact that I was born in Russia… I am so grateful for being fortunate enough to have come to the US at such a young age and most of my drive comes from the hunger to make the most out of this opportunity.

I know that had I stayed in Russia, my path in life would have been dramatically different.

From what I have seen and heard in my environment growing up, it seems that a lot of Americans can benefit greatly from understanding this perspective.

Be grateful for the opportunity you have here to design whatever kind of life you want.

Stop Making Excuses

Be Grateful For What You Have

Take Advantage of Your Opportunities

You could have been born anywhere … open your eyes and look at the environment around you. The food on your table, the roof over your head, the library down the street with millions of dollars of free knowledge, the employment and business opportunities … remember that most people in the world would kill to have what you have.

Don’t take it for granted. Take action. Set goals. Have a vision. Design your life. Hustle.

Appreciate what you have, and work relentlessly towards what you want.

Edit: I just wanted to add this video by Nido Qubein to build on my post…

Filed Under: Featured, Personal Development

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